"Don't wait for the perfect moment. Take the moment and make it perfect." #quote #wisdom #inspiration #2013 #via.com

This Is Why Russians Install Dashboard Cams!! Lol http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=llVFn8UZz10

I Been Fired..Now What??! Last Part: Questions To Ask Ex-Employer/Appellant At Unemployment Appeals Hearing... Besides Asking Hard Hitting Questions... Please Study The Unemployment Law... Codes And Precedents..Also Bring In Any Evidence Or Witnesses That Can Help Your Case..You Can Still Win..With No Witnesses..I Didn't Have Any When I Represented My Family Member..Just Lots Of Savvy Questioning! Lol...I Can't Tell You Enough..How Important It Is To Ask To See Documentation ( And How Extra Important It Is To Ask For An Acknowledgement That The You/Claimant Signed When Given A Written Or Oral Warning )...This Alone Can Win The Hearing For You... ( As It Did For Me ) You Have To Remember That The Burden Of Proof Is On The Employer..They Can Accuse You Of Anything...But Your Job Is To Shatter Anything You Think Is A Lie..Fabrication Or Fictitious..Force Them Into The Same Corner They Think They Have You In And Force Them To Prove Everything They Are Saying About You With Real Proof And Facts...Last Get To Court Early..Ask To See The File And Look To See If The Employer Added Any Documents..You Did Not See Before And Make Note Of It And Bring It Up In Your Hearing And Object It Or Anything You Think Is Not True...I Hope This Helps..Your More Than Welcome To Ask Any Questions..Good Luck And God Bless.. Love..Peace & Happiness,Mari* <3 #GodIsLove #GodIsJust

I Been Fired..Now What??! Last Post...As I Promised: What Questions To Ask Ex-Employer At Unemployment Appeals Hearing...You Got Here Because Your Employer Doesn't Want To Pay And You Need The Cash To Survive ( Though Very Small ) Every Lil Bit Counts..So Here Goes: Ask The Employer/Appellant; Did They Give (The Claimant= You Or The Person Who Lost Their Job ) Written Warnings And Can You See Copies... Signed By The Executor And Acknowledgement Signed By The Person Who Received The Copy ( This Would Be The Claimant Or You ) If They Say..No We Gave A Verbal Warning..Still Ask Them To Produce The Paper Work For The Oral Warnings..In The Same Manner You Asked For The Written Warnings...If They Targeted Your Performance As A Reason For Firing You..Ask Them Do They Have A Policy For Performance Standards And Ask To See It And Also Ask For A Written Copy Of The Acknowledgement That You/ Claimant Received One..Please Read Next Post...As This Post Is Too Large..Thanks,Mari* #IHaveNoFear

Happy Mother's Day To All The Beautiful Mothers In The World..Mothers To Be And Women Everywhere Who Raised Children..Whether They Carried Them Or Not And Gave Them All Their Love..Time Heart & Soul..Grandmas..Mama Jis... Aunties..Friends And Godmothers...Thank You So Very Much..May God Continue To Bless You And May You Continue To Be A Blessing In Our Lives..Love..Peace & Happiness,Mari* <3 #Love

God Bless Our Brothers And Sisters In Bangladesh...May He Comfort And Bring Peace..Love And Happiness To Their Lives And Homes..May They Always Remember Their Loved One's Many Beautiful Moments.. Not Final Hour..For We Live Our Lives In Many Moments..Not Just One..God Bless Us All..Love..Peace & Happiness, Always Mari*

The Birds & The #Bees { #spring } | http://youtu.be/tzCpBoxF2gc

Happy Cinco De Mayo...Everyone! Enjoy This beautiful Weekend As We Join In Celebrating Mexican Independence With Our Mexican Friends..Eat Well..Drink Responsibly..(No Drinking And Driving)..Have Fun And Be Safe..Love..Peace & Happiness,Mari* <3

I love that man but I #TRUST that God has summin betta 4 my life...#GodsGotMe!

#trust

Warning: Better Warned And Forewarned... In A Recent Study...Ground Turkey Was Found To Be Contaminated With Antibiotic Resistant Bacteria...60% Of The Ground Turkey Tested Had Traces Of Fecal Matter..Including E.Coli...This Included The Organic Fed Varieties.* #BetterToPrevent #ThanRegret

I Been Fired...Now What??!( Part 3 ) What Is Willful Misconduct: The Term "Willful Has Been Defined By The California Courts As Follows:To Do A Thing With Deliberation Is To Do It With Consideration And Reflection And If After Indulging In This Mental Process..The Act Is Done As A Result Thereof..It Is Willful..To Do A Thing Willfully Is To Do It Knowingly Conscious;Knowing;Done With Stubborn Purpose But Not With Malice.* Inefficiency And/Or Inability..Title 22, Section 1256-38 (b)(1) Provides: Ordinarily Inability Or Incapacity To Perform A Job Or Inefficient Performance Is Not Misconduct.. Nor Is A Simple Error Or Isolated Instance...Please Study The UI Code Section 1256..Though Your Employer May have Fired You For Substandard Performance Or Many Other Reasons..Under The Law...Those Maybe Mere Excuses And Without Proof That You Intentionally Hurt Them..It Won't Hold Up At The Hearing...The Court Wants Real Proof Backed By Facts..Did They Warn Or Write You Up And Did You Sign An Acknowledgement..This Is A Question I Asked And Recommend You Ask If They Never Warned You..More Tips On What To Ask Later..Stay Tuned.* #HelpfulSeries.

I Been Fired...Now What??!( Part 2 ) While You May Have Not Been Employee Of The Month...Your Job...Is Not To Claim Wrongful Termination...California Is An At Will State (Which Means An Employer Can Fire You For Any Reason Or No Reason At All ) Your Best Angle Is To Show That While Not Perfect..You Did The Very Best Job You Could...The Minute You Receive The Unemployment Appeal And Yes..This Can Happen..(Even If You Are Awarded Benefits) Look To See What Your Ex- Employer ( aka The Appellant ) Is Accusing You Of??! Don't Worry! Start Googling...Though They Can Fire You For Any Reason And Tell The Unemployment Department Anything..Even Make Things Up..They Have To Prove It At The Hearing..The burden Of Proof In Cali Is On The Employer..Next Up Is What Is Or Isn't Willful Misconduct??!* #HelpfulSeries

I Been Fired...Now What??!( Part 1 ) Unfortunately...This Is A Question...Many Will Ask...As Companies Continue To Find Ways To Survive...This Tough Economy! Lets Talk About Before You Get Discharged...You Should Be Documenting Anything That Will Be Valuable...When You Apply For Unemployment And Your Claim Gets Appealed By Your Employer...Don't Take It Personal..Most Employers Appeal..They Do Not Want To Pay Or Have Their Unemployment Insurance Go Up...The More Employees Apply And Get Approved..The Higher There Insurance Rises..So Be Prepared To Fight For Unemployment...Even If You Did Nothing Wrong..Most Will Use Willful Misconduct Or Grossly Substandard Performance Or Both.* #HelpfulSeries

Whatever Troubles My Life And Soul..I Pray...It Seems To Be The Calm And Peace My Soul Seeks...Though I Will Pray Again Today..I Post Not To Pray..But To Give Thanks...Thank Thee Mother For Hearing And Accepting My Prayers...For Receiving My Problems Into Thy Hands And Making Them Thees And Not Mine..Thanks For Lifting Heavy Burdens From My Shoulders And Carrying My Cross...In The Name Of The Father And The Son..Amen.* #LoveAndMoreLove

Some inspiring words this Friday! :)

Sometimes You Have To Put Yourself Aside And Put Your Problems And Your Things On A Shelf To Help Someone Else...In Life There Is A Time And A Place For Everything..With That Said...For Those Who Have Been Wondering Why I Haven't Been Posting Or Writing...I Had To Study And Research Employment Law And Cases..I Represented A Family Member At An Unemployment Hearing..( Which We Just Got Word ) We Won!! I Did A Lot Of Praying Also..I Thank God And The Virgin Mary...Oh But Did..I Put My Hand In Fire A Few Times And Your Honor Slapped Me On The Wrist A Few Times...I Should Have Pursued Law..Perfect Combo For A Mind Like Mind...Nonstop Always Thinking...For Those Of You Facing An Appeals Hearing..You Can Win..Just Research And Be Prepared...Ask The Other Side For Documentation Of Policies And Any Wrong Doing..You Are Accused Of..Force Them To Prove..Any Allegations...With Real Facts.* #BeautyAndBrains #SmartGirlsFinishStrong

What I Know For Sure: Is If One Looks For All The Bad In The World..One Will Find It...If One Looks And Expects All The Good In The World..One Will Also Find It...Life Goes Round And Round Full Circle And Then Round And Round Again.*

God Bless America! My Thoughts And Prayers Are With The Families & Victims In Boston..My Heartfelt Condolences..Please Say A Prayer..Light A Candle ( If You Can ) Enjoy: Celine Dion..God Bless America http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6LSarhZpnMs

Beyonce: Pepsi Mirrors..Totally Hot! Enjoy!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_2smYVl0zrk

Get Inspired To Think And Live Positively..Enjoy!!: Joel Osteen..Activate Faith, Not Fear.* http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VB0yjPH6Bgo

Update: This Is Just An Update On A JPC Story I Did..This Is Not To Make Fun..To Inspire And Educate..Ron Johnson JC Penny CEO Is Out!! When I Wrote The Story..I Knew He Was Out Of Touch With The Customers And What The Customers Wanted..The Investors Also Echoed The Sentiment..What I Didn't Know..He Was Apple Retail Chief And He Apparently Did Great Things There..This Shows..One Can Be Great At Somethings And Not Great At Others Or Just Know..One Product Better Than The Other..His Old Position Is Still Available And Apparently..They Miss His Outside The Box Thinking..At Apple.*

What I Know For Sure: Employers Should Not Have A Say In Whether You Get Unemployment Benefits..The Law Most Change..Too Many People Are Suffering.. Sometimes You Have To Fight For What Is Rightfully Yours When Someone Else Tries To Take It Away..Whether That Be A Chance..Thing Or Opportunity..So Many People Are Struggling To Pay The Bills And Put Food On The Table..What Makes It Worst Is When An Employer..That Never Cared About You..Only What Money You Could Put In Their Pockets..Tries..To Appeal Your Unemployment..This Is Happening To People From All Walks Of Life..Nurses...Teachers Etc..In Hopes That One Walks Away And You Save Them From Higher Insurances Cost..I Say Stand Up To Evil And Fight..This Is Your Lifeline..Keep Your Head Up! Things Will Get Better..This I Know For Sure..Happy Weekend..Love...Peace & Happiness, Mari* #EmployersGetIntegrity

Enjoy!!: Come To The Water..With Lyrics By Matt Maher..Beautiful Song.* <3 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uJJVrZKqKNE

Oh Father..Lord Jesus Christ..Thru Thy Mother I Ask For These Miracles In My Life: Baby Jesus Pure In Heart..Have Mercy On Us...Thru Thy Mother I Ask For Thous Divine Interception..Madre Maria Madre De Dios Ayudanos Cuidanos....y Protegenos..Llene Nuestros Hogares iha Nosotros De Bendiciones..Cuide A Nuestros Ninos..Asi Como Cuido A El Nino Jesus..Madre In Thy Son's Name I Ask For A Divine Miracle..I Pray For Those Who Need..Food..Money Or A Place To Call Home..Those Whose Health Is Failing...Those Who Need Help.( Mother Hear My Prayer )*This Is My Novena* Pray For Nine Days Straight & Give Thanks.* #MiraclesWillHappen #MadreDeDios